From time to time most children defy the wishes of their parents. This is a part of growing up and testing adult guidelines and expectations. It is one way for children to learn about and discover their own selves, express their individuality, and achieve a sense of autonomy. As they stretch their independent wings and engage in minor conflicts with their parents, they discover the boundaries of their parents' rules and of their own self-control.
Sometimes, however, these conflicts are more than occasional disturbances and become a pattern for how parents and children interact. Disobedience can have a variety of causes. At times, it is due to unreasonable parental expectations. Or it might be related to the child's temperament, or to school problems, family stress, or conflicts between his parents.
In this situation recite Allah name, Ya Barru 100 times with Darood Ibrahimi before and after 11 times and blow on your child, do this 40 days, in shaa Allah child will become obedient.
Urdu:
Bachey jab barey honey lagtey han tu wo azadi chahtey han kiyon k unhey pata nahi hot k un k liye kia behter hai aur kia nahi, isi liye jab walden unhey ruktey han tu some times bachey zidi hojatey han aur nafermani kerney lagtey han asa ager kabhi kabhi ho tu phir tu theek hai lakin ager asa mamool ban jaye tu phir 100 bar Ya Barru awal o akhir 11 bar Darood Ibrahimi k sath phr ker bachey per dam karen, 40 din in shaa Allah bacha fermaberdar hojaye ga.